Book Review
THE DEATH OF FEMINISM
What’s Next in the Struggle for Women’s Freedom
Phyllis Chesler
Reviewed by Eleanor J. Bader The Public Eye Magazine - Spring 2006
It’s not exactly headline news that men and women have yet
to achieve equality. On average, women still
earn less than men, the lion’s share of child and
elder care falls on female shoulders, and men
remain largely absent from the domestic
tableau. Couple this with shrinking access to
abortion, birth control, and sexuality education,
and it is easy to dismiss 20th century
feminism as a colossal failure.
Of course, such reductive reasoning misses
the mark, sidestepping a slew of issues and
obstacles. Nonetheless it has become increasingly
trendy to blame feminism for everything
from teenaged angst to romantic
blunders.
Phyllis Chesler, whose groundbreaking
book, Women and Madness, galvanized thousands
of “Second Wave” feminists when it
was released in 1972, has joined the backlash
at full tilt. Her arguments run from the
facile to the silly and deride feminists as
craven beings whose allegiance to the left has
caused them to abandon those who need liberation
most. As she sees it, “the disease of
politically correct passivity” has kept the
women’s movement from decrying the major
threat to contemporary U.S. values, Islamic
fundamentalism.
Chesler, a frequent contributor to David
Horowitz’s FrontPage Magazine and an
unabashed fan of George W. Bush, sees
domestic feminists as wildly anti-American.
She also sees university-level women’s studies classes as purveyors
of radicalism, brainwashing innocent adolescents to
undervalue Judeo-Christian traditions.
Yes, rhetoric is high in Chesler’s The Death of Feminism, as
are gross generalizations. “A Democrat today means that one is
a liberal,” she writes. “And liberals are no longer what they once
were or who they should be. Today liberals are more left than
ever before. Many engage in totalitarian groupthink… One cannot
be pro-choice and anti-gay marriage, nor [sic] can one oppose
both rape and affirmative action. One has to sign on to the entire
politically correct agenda or risk being attacked and ostracized.”
Lord knows which Democrats Chesler is referring to as most
pundits have noted the Party’s rightward swing on issues including
abortion, civil liberties and pre-emptive war. Similarly, it is
impossible to discern which academic institutions are breeding
the array of youthful revolutionaries Chesler
references. (Needless to say, if the Dems and
the universities were as bold as Chesler charges,
we might not be in Iraq, the Patriot Act might
not have won Congressional passage, and
the U.S. Constitution might include an
amendment giving women equal rights. But
I digress.)
Chesler grounds her theories in highly
selective personal observations and anecdotes.
Throughout, she lambastes left-feminists
for making Shar’ia Law seem like just
another religious option and for failing to
denounce the oppressive garments mandated
by Muslim modesty. Had they done
so, she suggests, feminists could have liberated
these sisters; instead, they parade
through European and U.S streets “veiled,
like ghosts.”
A chapter entitled “My Afghan Captivity”
seeks to further pull readers’ heartstrings.
In it, Chesler recounts her 1961
elopement, at age 20, with her Afghani
Muslim sweetheart, Ali. After getting married,
the couple travel to Ali’s birthplace in
Kabul; the tale of his family’s treatment of
her is horrific, rife with insults, bad food, and
mobility restrictions. Yet the story seems to
be missing some important details. A selfdescribed
Orthodox Jew, Chesler never discusses
her family’s reaction to the betrothal.
Were Muslims the only people to denounce
this improbable match, or did her family sit Shiva, mourning
her marriage as if she had died? More generally, how did the insular
Borough Park, Brooklyn, community in which Chesler was
reared deal with her worldly aspirations? Later, following her eventual
divorce, was all forgiven?
While Chesler never mentions these topics, she does offer a
veritable Megillah of horrors suffered by Muslim females. Her
analysis of the ways women police one another to enforce
misogynist customs is insightful,
although her refusal to acknowledge
that they are not the only ones to
oppress their own is troubling.
And therein lies the central failing
of The Death of Feminism. Chesler
believes that stopping Muslim fundamentalism
should be a top priority
the world over. She further believes
that there is a universal code of conduct
that can, and should, be followed. Despite historical evidence
to the contrary, she implies that outsiders can impose new
social mores on Muslim countries without engendering either
backlash or resentment. It is as if she envisions a Koran-reading
cadre eager for consumerist bounty. What’s more, as Chesler conjures
this illusion, she ignores Christian and Jewish fundamentalism,
thereby demonizing Muslims and setting up a dichotomy
in which some fundamentalists—notably brown-skinned Arabs
and Africans in non-Western attire—are presented as more dangerous
than men like Jerry Falwell, Tim LaHaye, Pat Robertson
or the Lubavitcher rebbes.
“Muslims in the West should not have the right to face-veil
their girls and women; practice female genital mutilation;
arrange forced marriages; or commit crimes such as polygamy,
wife-beating, child abuse and shame-based honor murders,” she
writes. I agree. But are Muslims here clamoring for such imperatives?
Secondly, aren’t there already laws against these practices
that cover everyone?
Chesler’s biases are blatant. She rails against progressives and
gratuitously criticizes feminists including The Nation’s Katha
Pollitt. She dismisses critics of U.S. foreign policy as cultural
relativists and presents political disagreements as a breakdown
in civility, as if it is the height of diplomatic discourse when Dick
Cheney calls opponents of the Iraq War shameless, reprehensible
cowards.
Still, the essence of the matter—something Chesler misses—
is that all forms of religious fundamentalism threaten justiceloving
people. Esther Kaplan, in With God on Their Side, wrote
that the current war on terror can be seen as a “religious crusade
by Christian fundamentalists at home and Islamic fundamentalists
abroad.” While Chesler is rooting for the Christians, those
who disagree with her face a thornier dilemma: how to make secular
humanism a desirable alternative. In addition, she offers no
guidance on how—or if—to limit cultural autonomy and
promote assimilation amongst groups as diverse as the Amish,
Hasidic Jews, Native Americans or socially conservative Muslim
immigrants.
As recent violence in France made clear, ignoring these issues
has dire consequences. Sadly, Chesler’s rant about the “Islamization
of the West” does nothing to address this or to advance
women’s rights. Yet she is right about one thing: Feminism is
incompatible with fundamentalism. Indeed, if feminism is to
survive as a political movement, it must work to vanquish this
enemy both at home and abroad.
Eleanor J. Bader is a Brooklyn, NY-based teacher, writer and
activist. She is coauthor of Targets of Hatred: Anti-Abortion Terrorism
(St. Martin’s Press, 2001).
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